Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage

Strengthen your marriage through the power of self-awareness, grace, and the Gospel with Becoming Us by Beth and Jeff McCord. Blending the wisdom of the Enneagram with a Christ-centered approach to relationships, this insightful guide helps couples understand their unique personalities—and how those differences can become sources of connection rather than conflict.

With practical tools and spiritual guidance, the McCords walk you through how each Enneagram type shows up in marriage, how to navigate common tension points, and how to grow together in love, empathy, and unity. Whether you're newly married or decades in, this book offers a roadmap to deeper intimacy, mutual understanding, and lasting transformation.